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Advice For Women Ending A Date

The Perfect Kiss: Advice For Women Ending A Date

Should I always allow a man to walk me to my door?

There are very few “always” and “never”s. Being walked to your door on a first date is a question of whether you are interested or not. If you are interested, absolutely, allow him walk you to the door. He probably wants to kiss you goodnight. If you are not interested, make it clear that you had a good time, say goodbye in the car, and get out.

Should I wait until the end of the date to kiss my date?

Actually, I really like it when a guy tries to kiss you during the date, at some point spontaneously when it’s fun. It takes a lot of pressure off at the end of the date - should I kiss him or should I let him kiss me? It’s nice so if you’re open to it; a little spontaneity shakes the date up a bit.

What’s the best way to handle a goodnight kiss scenario?

Clients ask me all the time about how to handle a goodnight kiss at the end of a date. It’s a very stressful thing, but it doesn’t have to be. Laugh a little, have a good time, but know ahead of time: is this something you want, or not? So you know if you are preparing to have that kiss, or if you are preparing to fend it off. If you want to have the kiss, make yourself available to it. Be open. Know you could bump noses, or turn your head the same way, and laugh about it! Have a good time. This is not that serious. It should be fun. If you don’t want the kiss, be prepared for that too. Are you going to turn your cheek and avoid? Will you try to go in for a hug with your head down? Just know how you are going to handle it to make it easy for you, and the other person.

Should I ask a man if it’s OK to kiss him?

No, you shouldn’t ask a man if you want to kiss him. You either go for it, or you let him do it, let him make the move. Show that you’re open and available to it. I would suggest encouraging him to do it, but if you want to, you can move in for the kiss. Just don’t ask him about it on a date.

How do I handle it if he rejects me when I try to kiss him?

Ouch! First of all, I don’t suggest that you go in for the first kiss. I think it’s the man’s move to make. But, if you’re strong enough to make that first move in and go for the kiss at the end of a date, than you should be strong enough to laugh if it doesn’t work out.

Should I mention a second date at the end of a first date?

I’m a little bit more traditional, so I wait to see if the guy wants to go on a second date with me before I mention anything. But one thing I would do is let him know that you had a really good time. Sometimes they need a little encouragement and you want to let him know that you want to do it again just by telling him you had a good time tonight.

What To Do If You Catch Your Parents Having Sex?

Starting Your Sex Life:What To Do If You Catch Your Parents Having Sex

Dr Hannibal Lecter is a madman, but why? It’s because he once caught his parents having sex- dirty, filthy sex. He developed some techniques to stop the horror, and shares them with you in this delightful film.

1. Step 1: Hearing it. Hearing your mother in the throes of ecstasy can break the soul, so drown it out at all costs. Use ear plugs, strap pillows to your head, or put on some headphones, a blast of The Village People works a treat for me. Or just slice off your ears. Find a way to let them know you are aware of their love play. Try playing the same song every time. May I suggest Salt ‘n’ Peppa’s seminal classic “Lets Talk About Sex”. Failing that, march up and down yelling Who’s the Daddy? and see how they like it.
2. Step 2: If you walk in on them. The best idea is just never barge into their room If you fail in this simple task, just act innocent. Strike up a conversation. “Hello fine fellows, what are you up to?” They will probably make an excuse, such as scaring bed mites. Be prepared for a straight answer though, in which case the only choice you have is to accept it. You could just stand and scream. Scream and scream and scream. Until they promise they will never dare look at each others sinful skin again.
3. Step 3: If it’s kinky… Grab a camera and take a photo, providing you bribes a go-go. Suggest if they ever behave in such a way again this photo will be going up at the work place, in their friends inboxes, and be part of an extensive leafleting campaign. Sabotage any potential, er, “equipment”. Hide the keys to the handcuffs, and smear deep heat liberally over everything. Failing the above, just try and out weird them. Pull up a pew and provide a running sports commentary. They won’t be in a hurry to do it again.
4. Step 4: Not sure if they saw you? The tension will be unbearable if you don’t know if they saw your prying eyes or not, but keep your trap shut and hope the awkwardness dissipates. You should never ever utter the sentence “Father I saw you penetrating ma ma”…Oh god I think I’m going to throw up! If you can’t manage this, just move the hell out and sever all contact. Definitely don’t try to eat them.

How To Striptease?

THE LOVE STORY:How To Striptease

You voted for us to make a film on how to striptease, well here it is! Watch as our lovers take it up a gear in the bedroom with a sexy striptease, but who’s doing the stripping….

Step 1: Togs. If you look good, you’ll feel good, so choose an outfit that enhances your features and isn’t something you’d wear everyday. It should be clothing you feel comfortable in, but don’t go for comfort at the cost of sex appeal. and don’t forget smaller items such as stockings, shoes, jewelry and scarves.

Wear a costume that allows you to get into character - so you can act out a role play that puts you firmly in the driving seat. Order him to sit down. Tell him not to touch… anything.

Step 2: Tempt. Now, crank it up a gear by putting on some music that turns you into a woman possessed… by the rhythm of your soul. Work the room, and move around him… over him… and under him.

If he tries to touch you, just tie him up. ‘Bump’ him with a pelvic thrust and then ‘Grind’ with a slow circular movement of the hips. Be confident. Parade about and revel in your own magnificence… before you even think about losing some layers.

Step 3: Taunt. You’re a present about to unwrap all by itself, but don’t let him have all his Christmasses at once, and keep it slow. Slowly unbutton your jacket with your back to him, looking over your shoulder. It’s important here to have buttons or buckles that you can undo with ease. Shrug your shoulders oh so sexily so the jacket falls down your back. Slowly remove each arm and turn to face him with the jacket still covering your traffic stoppers. Now discard the garment with the disdain it deserves….

TOP TIP: If you’re a particularly tidy person, don’t suddenly start worrying about scattering clothing all over the floor and start to hang them up - it’ll ruin the mood.

Step 4: Tantalise. Now, get those shoes off. For ease of removal, wear slip on heels, as it’s more difficult to undo straps or laces in a sexy manner. Lift your leg behind you, and kick or pull each shoe off with an exotic flourish. Next, release every woman’s secret weapon - the stocking. Stand side-on with one leg on a chair or the edge of the bed, and move your hands in the way he’d want to touch you. Look right at him and slowly roll each stocking down your leg. Once you’ve slipped them off, don’t get rid of them… use them as an extra prop to flick his ignition and sound his horn.

Step 5: Torture. Turn away from him once more and start undoing your skirt, arching your back as you do it so he gets the optimum rear view. Let the skirt drop to the floor, and carefully, seductively, step out of it. Next, undo your bra strap, release your arms, and turn to face him, holding the bra in place. Use the other hand to pull the bra out from underneath and let it fall. Keep your nerve and allow yourself to bask in your splendor. Imagine that your hands are his and do exactly what he is desperate to do to you.

Finally, remove the last, smallest garment and give him time to enjoy the view before allowing the evening to really kick into gear.

How To Make Your Breasts Look Bigger?

In this film we show you tricks & techniques for making your boobs look bigger.

Dating Humor:How To Make Your Breasts Look Bigger

Step 1: Underwear tricks.

Get a proper bra fitting and then splash out on a Push Up or Plunge bra as they’re designed to push your breasts up and out. Foam, air, and gel inserts are made to be inserted into your bra but if you do this, make sure the fit isn’t too tight and it doesn’t look like you’ve been shot in the back by a couple of cruise missiles. Silicone inserts are good here as they’re worn directly on the outside of the breast and look more natural than other inserts.

Step 2: Over time.

Strengthening and toning the muscles beneath your breasts helps make them look bigger by making them sit higher and more evenly on your chest. Start doing some daily pectoral exercises like press ups and pull ups and over time this will force your breasts up and out.

You can also try massaging the upper and outer area of your breasts in circular motions each day to help stimulate circulation and tone-up the fatty tissue. Sesame seeds are also very effective in enlarging the breasts so try and eat several handfuls a day. If this regime still hasn’t got your breasts growing as fast as you’d like then you should move to defcon four….

Step 3: Sex yourself up a bit.

Horizontal stripes with a high neckline are a good way of increasing your breasts appearance but you should also try experimenting with ruffles and frills to draw attention to your cleavage.

Wearing spaghetti strap tops and accessorizing with low hanging pendants that fall just above the top of the breast will draw more attention to the bust area. If you’re wearing a low cut top, apply eyeshadow or blusher, a shade darker than your skin tone, between the breasts to suggest shadows and cleavage. A touch of shimmery glitter on top of each breast will highlight the rounded top and make your chest look fuller.

How To Stop Being Horny?

Have you ever been in a situation where you’ve been confronted with a room full of gorgeous people and can’t keep yourself under control? You’ve tried everything including Jedi mind tricks and none of it has helped? Well don’t worry anymore, as here is Videojug’s guide to removing that unfortunate horn…

Office Life:How To Stop Being Horny

Step 1: Focus on the unsexiest thing in the room

Try focusing on any unsexy things you can see. How about Harold. If, in your warped mind, there is a certain something about him, how about some inanimate object, like a pencil or a sofa.

Step 2: Thinking unsexy thoughts

If you’re having trouble finding actual physical images to focus on, try going all abstract. Think about things that are guaranteed to turn you off without being too explicit. Think about the damage barbed wire, a mousetrap, or a meat cleaver could do. These should make you droop like a flag on the moon.

Step 3: A short sharp shock

Sometimes the mind simply isn’t strong enough to get you through this, so administer a bit of physical pain. Never stab yourself or break the skin, you might hit an artery. Instead stamp on your own foot, or give yourself a dead arm. Try and keep it subtle, or people will think you’re a bit weird.

Step 4: Get out

Pull out, as quickly and discreetly as possible. Don’t draw attention by excusing yourself, just go.

Retire to the bathroom for a little ‘me-time’. The bonus about doing this at work is you can time yourself, and work out how much you got paid for doing it! Afterwards you can return to deliver that killer speech, safe in the knowledge that you’ve cut off that awkward horn.

Learn the basics of emotional freedom techniques in this free self help healing video

The Basics of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). So now we are going to go over the basic recipe of EFT; or at least my basic recipe of EFT. The first thing that you want to do is figure out what you want to work on. Be very specific. The more specific you are, the better results you will get. And so think about if you had a magic wand and you could fix one thing right now, what would that be. So now that you have your issue, give it a rating. “Zero” is everything is perfect, and “ten” is everything is as bad as it can get. So decide on a rating for what your issue is. And if you don’t know, that’s okay; just guess. So now that you have your rating, we will start with the basic recipe. We’re going to start by tapping on what’s called your karate chop point. And just imagine that if you were to give someone a karate chop, it would be right at that spot right here. So you are going to start tapping on your karate chop point. I use multiple fingers just to over do it, why not? So continually tapping on your karate chop point, you’re going to say a set up phrase three times. And the set-up phrase goes like this: even though I have this problem, I deeply and completely accept myself. Even though I have this problem, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Even though I have this problem, I love and accept myself anyway. Now I said it differently, but the basic idea is that you repeat three times some form of “even though I have this problem..” up to “myself.” And the more emphatic…the more emphatic that you are with the “I deeply and completely accept myself…” So we’ll repeat that again. Even though I have this problem, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. And that’s what you’ll say three times. Once you’ve done the set-up phrase, then we will tap meridian points with a “reminder phrase.” So the first spot is the eyebrow point which is right at the start of either eyebrow. And you’ll just tap it. I use two fingers. And you’ll tap it about five to seven times as you repeat “this problem.” So it’s just the reminder; you don’t have to do the entire phrase. So it’s “this problem.” The next point is called “side of eye.” And that’s right on the orbit bone on the side of your eye. And you repeat again, “this problem.” Again, it’s about five to seven times. Right under your eye…right in the middle…again, “this problem…” about five to seven times. The next spot is right under your nose, between your nose and your lip. And again, I use two fingers…”this problem.” The next spot is called your “chin.” And it’s right at that middle point…”this problem.” The next spot is called “the collar bone” but it’s not exactly right on the collar bone. So find that indentation right on your chest and then move over and down, ever so slightly, on either side. And I like to use the flat of my fingers and just get the area, and that insures that you are getting the proper point. And again, you are going to tap about five to seven points…”this problem.” The next spot is called “under arm” and it’s about four inches below your armpit, right in the center under your arm. And for women, it’s going to be right about where your bra strap is. And again, I like to overdo it, so I tend to use all three or four fingers and just tap…”this problem.” The next spot is your “liver point.” Sometimes known as “under breast.” And, it’s right…or, let’s see…I’m going to let you try this and kind of figure out what you want to say with it. Sometimes it is also referred to as “under nipple.” But some people get freaked out by that. But your liver point is right on where your ribs are….”this problem.” The next point that I use are the wrists. And it’s generally under your wrists on both sides. And tap them together…”this problem.” And then we end with the top of head which is…if you were to put your thumbs on your ears and just connect on the top of your head where that meets…”this problem.” And that is a basic round of EFT. There are all kinds of things that you can do to complicate it, but that’s enough to get you going.

Learn how to achieve your personal peak performance with emotional freedom techniques in this free self help healing video

Improving Performance with Emotional Freedom. One of the things that you can use EFT for is peak performance. And there are all kinds of aspects to peak performances, but one of them is increasing your range of motion. So for now, let’s pick a stretch that you are working on. Remember to be gentle on yourself. But try something that you know you have limited range of motion. So maybe try touching your toes or do a shoulder stretch; something that you are familiar with. So first try the stretch, now rate it. A “zero” is you had a perfect, perfect stretch and you have complete range of motion. And a “ten” is you can barely move. Now that you have your rating, let’s get started. Start at your karate chop point, even though I have this limited range of motion, I deeply and completely love and accept myself. Even though I can’t move as much as I want to move, I choose to move freely. Even though I have this protective memory which is keeping me from moving freely, I deeply and profoundly love and accept myself anyway. Start at the eyebrow point, this limited range of motion. Side of eye, this stiffness in my body. Under eye, limited range of motion. Under your nose, protective memory in my tissues. Chin, protective memory in my cells. Collar bone, I want to move freely. Under arm, I choose to move freely. Liver point, I will relax into moving freely. Wrist, my cells are open to moving freely. Top of head, this limited range of motion. Now, breathe in. Now try to do the same stretch again. Now do the same stretch again and adjust the rating to what it is right now. And you can continue on to increase, to further increase your range of motion with each round.